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STOP SELLING! Start solving problems.

by Jim Lawless on January 25, 2009

We’re well into the 21st Century. “Salesmen/women” exist in only small pockets now. Darwin’s laws in action.

Those who are still “selling” are in trouble. In 2009, they may die out. There is a new mindset. “Features, benefits and objection handling” are still in there – but they are buried deep and barely visible within a new framework. If these elements plus a few “closing techniques” plus some half remembered NLP “mindtricks” multiplied by the number of calls per week made make up a cornerstone of your strategy for claiming an increased share of a market with decreasing total spend – I wish you luck. You will surely need all you can get.

Instead?

Make friends, earn trust, solve problems. This does two things:

1 It makes “selling” a whole lot easier to deal with (and more fun and stimulating) for the person “selling” – It removes the Tiger for most people once you phrase it – and approach it – like this. And whether you are reading this with “HR Director”,”Head of Market Research” or “Events Organiser” on your card or whether you are in “sales” – you sell something and in this particular year you’d better deal with the Tiger and up your game. And we’re already nearly at the end of January (Rule 1 is currently paying big dividends to Tiger tamers in a tough market).

2 It increases your chances of making a successful “sale” to your internal or external clients.

Why? People want to deal with people they like and, critically, trust. Did you ever trust a “salesman”? Thought not. Me neither.

People buy things to solve their problems. Whether that problem is how to impress when they pull up at the office in their nice car or whether it is to get their accounts done with the minimum of time and effort or [insert your customers' problem here - and if you cannot, take a walk NOW and think it through] , they buy from you to solve it.

Find out that problem. Don’t assume. It’s subtler than that. Make friends with the person and demonstrate your ability to solve it for them. Act with integrity at every stage and demonstrate that you deserve their trust.

And care. Care beyond hitting the numbers. I know if you care because I have budget. I know if you care because you want to work with me to solve my problems. You know too. So do “they”. If you could fake it well enough that “they” couldn’t tell, you’d be in Hollywood.

And, of course, deliver.

Simple as that folks. Except, of course, it’s not. It’s a big shift in mindset and involves skills that may or may not be intuitive. If you want to ensure that you and your people are making friends and solving problems rather than selling, take a look at the Taming Tigers Learning course “Sell”.

Or ring up your current training partner and see if they want to solve your problem for you.

Every success out there!

Jim.

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The (old familiar) Tiger who came to tea…

by Jim Lawless on December 12, 2008

It’s been a busy week for presenting and Tuesday found me striding into the gothic magnificence of London’s historic Guildhall to deliver the after-dinner address to the Institute of Chartered Secretaries and Administrators at their annual banquet. Now I have immense respect for these senior folk, the guardians of corporate governance in the UK and around the world and I considered it a real honour to have been invited to address them.

The top table faced the Wellington and Nelson memorial statues as we took our seats in the room which Her Majesty the Queen chose as the venue for her Coronation Breakfast.

Around four hundred members of the Institute took their seats for dinner, formally dressed.   I shared my table with two Knights, the President of the Institute and guests from around the world.

Now I speak to audiences of over five hundred on a weekly basis. It gives me a pleasant adrenaline hit. But for some reason during dinner, my Tiger came to tea. Roaring wildly and telling me that this was all going to go wrong. He was a surprise guest. And very unwelcome.

I excused myself after the main course and went out into the cold evening – desperately missing my old comrade in arms, the cigarette – and set to work on my Tiger with the 10 Rules.

Rule 1 would play its part – but not until I heard my name announced and stood up to their applause. Now it was time for Rule 4. Time to follow my own advice on dealing with the battle in your head when the crunch moment comes and the pressure, for whatever reason, is causing a problem. The book goes into more detail but my favourite weapons in this battle are to look for  real evidence that you’ll be fine – and to get lost in the task rather than the self analysis. I also used some of the tips from the Taming Tigers Learning course – “Present” – particularly Key 6 “You Cannot Read Minds”.

The alert was reduced from Red to Amber (I enjoy Amber) by the time I re-entered the room to face the “tasty looking dessert” Tiger before speaking.

I enjoyed the speech immensely and I hear that the members and guests of the Institute did also. It came as a surprise to be attacked by the Tiger before presenting. But a salutary reminder to stay alert.

The message?  Rule 4, “It’s all in the mind” is the only way to deal with pressure situations, where you risk delivering a second rate performance (in sport, at work, wherever!) simply because of a Tiger… (that isn’t really there, is it?)

Finally my thanks to my hosts on Tuesday for their kind hospitality. I wish them every success with their difficult but vital role in a hard climate where they are sure to be tested.

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